Has your hard work ever been overlooked? You might have been working overtime for weeks, and when the promotion time came along, a less experienced co-worker (who rarely, if past time) would be commended for his great work And is rewarded with a higher, better paying position.
Or maybe a new website you’ve been working on for weeks, you’re not getting the traffic you think it’s worth. And other, lower-quality websites are as popular as ever (despite being “ugly” or having poor content on it).
Whatever it is, it is a terrible feeling knowing that you have done some hard work just to take “credit” to others. And if you are like most normal people, you will probably feel filled with anger… jealousy… or even pride in responding to these unjust situations.
However, when you can’t always stop it from happening, there is a way to bounce it back to create powerful motivation to use this situation. And maybe even you get what you deserve. Life is unfair but when you don’t handle it well it’s more unfair
It is normal to be upset or jealous whenever you are seeing people succeed, when you are struggling (to show a little bit for it). Most of the time, people throw up their hands in frustration at the end and react. “What’s the matter if it’s going to end just like this?” They can think.
Unfortunately, it is wrong The way to go about things. Turning anger, jealousy, and pride into motivational fuel, instead of letting negativity make you tear up, what if you use it to bring positive change in your life instead?
This may sound a little strange. But at the end of the day, some negative feelings take action. Of course, these are usually unexpected tasks. But there is no reason why you cannot incorporate this energy into something that makes your life better, rather it hurts it.
One way to propel you into inspiring and productive success is to use 3 “bad” feelings.
1. Unleash your anger
Anger is a symbol of fear and anxiety. While unrest will cause you to overcome challenges and opportunities, anger will lift you above the metaphor and tear your enemy to pieces. Those of you who are suffering from apprehension, when you know that doing something will improve your life, find something to temper … and let them do it!
If you want a promotion, but are afraid of rejection, imagine getting a lazy coworker (and the globe about it), and use that as fuel to take it for yourself.
If you’re afraid to promote your website, but look at other “lesser” websites that are gaining traction, think to yourself “Hey, this is my traffic”! And then “fight” for your website to take the spotlight. In the right dosage, anger is your friend. Learn to control it and it can become a powerful weapon.
“A person should set his goals as soon as possible and devote all his energy and talent to get there. With enough effort, he can achieve it. Or he can find something that is even more Is beneficial. But in the end, whatever the outcome, he will know that he is alive. ”- Walt disney
2. Get Green with Envy
How do you feel when you see someone getting paid better than you? Or what about seeing someone with a nice body instead of you, what happened then? No need to think too much about it – both you (and I) will feel jealous. We want what they have. And we want it now.
The problem is, this feeling usually only compartmentalizes because we do not like this feeling. It makes us feel inadequate and uncomfortable. And most people specialize in running away from these feelings.
But it will be a waste of your jealousy! The person you envy will have a much better response to study the ways of success and mold it into your life. Nobody succeeds overnight. So see if there is a way to improve that person’s way so that you can do better than them.
3. Be a stubborn and conceited person
If you lack a certain “stick-to-it” ability that hurts your self-discipline, then you can be proud of what you need. I am sure you must have seen people who refuse to give anything because they are still very stubborn. Most people see it as a bad thing, but is it really?
What if you could turn that stubbornness into a more productive outcome? Well, here’s what that persistence… Proud.
A person is stubborn because it would hurt their pride to give otherwise. It is like accepting that they do not say that they are they if they say it. And I think it is a superpower when applied to important goals.
To make this work, you need to find something that you are proud or obstinate about. For example, perhaps your family is known for its stubborn ways. Well, that would be perfect! The next time you’re working on a goal, and feel that urge to settle down, just say, “I’m Johnson, and we don’t give up!” And push until the feeling spreads.
Or maybe you are feeling proud about doing great in college or taking care of your family or being a great worker… all of these things can be used to get you through tough times.
Just remind yourself that something you are proud of means that you are capable of doing great things. And that you will not give up feelings of laziness just because they happen to you.
“If you are not stubborn, you will quit the experiments very soon. And if you are not flexible, you will pound your head against the wall and there is no different solution to the problem you are trying to solve. Will appear. “- Jeff bezos
I like to believe the idea that everything is for your benefit. Good things help. But if you are creative and open minded … then there are bad things. When you start thinking like this, you start seeing that everything can help you. And when that happens, you can also start hoping that you are having a bad day… just to use it as motivation fuel.